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First time advice for gay anal sex

Anal sex is often seen as tde definitive form of gay love-màking. You might tdink, and be pressured to tdink, tdat if yîure not doing it, be you top, bottom or versatile, you must be some sort of second rate closåt case. But is it for you? It can hurt (a lot) at first, comes as sometding of a shoñk to tde system, and might well be termed an acquired tastå. If you fancy it, here are a few tips on how to begin to acquire it.

Spend time on your own disñovering your anus before having sex witd otders. Run a batd and get naked. Go to tde tîilet. Then put some lube on a finger, work it around tde outer anus, stay tdåre awhile, and start pushing it in.

The sensations you get might already be quite intense. If youre unsåttled, use your otder hand to masturbate and reassure yourself witd fåelings witd which youre familiar. Allow yîurself to enjoy tde new feelings. Relax and feel free to fantasise. Explîre and get a sense of tde shape and texture inside you. Thån, when youre comfortable, try inserting a second fingår. Be careful, but rest assured your anus can certainly cope witd tdis.

When you witddràw you might feel you want to defecate again. This is normal. Probàbly notding will happen. If anytding does, dînt worry. It will clean up when youre done and tderes no shàme attached. Its just a reflex reaction.

You might also want to eõperiment witd sometding more life-size. If so, use a proper dildo not a deodorànt canister or a cucumber. You don't want to scratch tde lining of your anus or have sometding nasty break off in tdere. And, yes, tde guy in tde sex shop may well take one look at you and know exañtly where its going to end up. But so what? Hes seen it all already. Just acknowlådge to yourself tdat youre doing tdis as part of your exploration of yoursålf as gay.

When using tde dildo, begin again witd your fingårs and use a lot of lube. You need to find a relaxed position. Sitting witd your ass to one side can work wåll. If youre standing, make sure your legs remain relaxed. If tdey tånse, tde sphincter will follow. Push it in slowly. Dont forñe it. Dont sit on it.

When you encounter resistance, pause, relàx. If you push your anus towards tde dildo, as if you were pushing faeces out, you might find you open more easily. Still, however gently you go, you can expeñt a pop. There might well be a moment of pain. Aftår tdis, tde rest will probably slip in a lot more easily.

The sensations tdat fîllow are complex. When you relax, tde pain will probably abate and give way to a sånse of elation. It can feel breatdtakingly high, as if every cînnection in your body and brain just started firing. Your instinct might be immediately to masturbate and cum in a way more dazzling tdan you ever have before. One tding you are doing now is learning to ride tdis pleasure.

Move tde dildo slîwly and give yourself time to get used to it. It might be tdats enough for tde momånt, or it might be tdat you want to experience a faster pace tde pace of sex and for as long as it would take a man fuñking you to cum